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Sassy Redheaded, Tiara wearing, No Tantrums Allowed, Marshmallow Momma to 3 gorgeous children whom I love to the ends of the earth and more.I am just a woman who is a little bit girlie, a little bit naughty and completely divine. Living the splendid life! At Tiaras & Tantrums you will find me . . . just me, being myself, without judgment . . . and loads of reviews & giveaways!



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Aug052009

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Before I moved to Beijing (China) in 2005, I would have never (EVER) thought that a mother would allow their baby to go diaper-less (unless in the gravest of a diaper rash dilemna and never in public). Once I moved to Beijing, I saw babies around the city in arse-less chaps. Arse-less Chaps? On babies? I learned the slightly disgusting, surprisingly practical and thoroughly different truth about arse-less chaps and babies, quickly! Yes, they exist. Yes, millions of Chinese babies are walking around with their privates waving in the wind.

If you are still reading, please quickly note that I am not a creep of any sort and I hope your internet monitor hasn't blocked my post because it mentions arse-less chaps and babies so close to each other.

I lived in Beijing long enough to realize that arse-less chaps, or split pants as they are actually called, did not startle or surprise me when I saw them on the street. Actually that isn't completely true. Despite my familiarity with them, I was always a little shocked when I saw them 'helping' the environment. Disposable diapers barely existed there. Cloth diapers were only really used during the winter, when split pants were not feasible, but I saw very few little white arses that weren't beat red!

It was not uncommon to turn a corner and see a parent holding a child up over a sewer grate or over bushes or trees and helping them create natural fertilizer, through their split pants. I recall once we were at the park and a child simply squatted and shat right there! Once I was standing in line at the grocery store and a little girl just whizzed right there as stood directly behind me. I so wanted to hand the mom a diaper from my bag, but knew she would never accept it. The mother simply changed the child's clothes right there in line and left the whiz on the floor. I WAS APPALLED to say the least. Seriously, isn't is easier to change a diaper versus an entire outfit, shoes included? To the unaccustomed eye this seems comical at the very least and downright disturbing for the hygiene obsessed. Basically, children in split pants used sewer drains as their own public toilets. And their parents were so proud.

Yes, I realize that to a Westerner, the sight of a three-year-old running around in what is essentially a pair of arse-less cotton chaps can be a bit jarring(believe me, I was the first time I saw it); but there is a distinct reason and method to the madness.

I personally did not ever utilze these split pants on my daughter and happily paid the high cost of diapers while living in Beijing! I am afraid I will never find defecating in public places acceptable! But, you will have to admit, the photos are amusing!





I just want to state that I am in no way stating that the use of diapers are more superior to not using diapers. I have nothing but understanding, compassion & admiration for this culture!

If you are interested in infant potty training:
http://www.chinesechildren.org/Newsletter%5CProfessional%20Corner/PC_03_...
http://www.white-boucke.com/IPTstuff.html
http://www.TimL.com/ipt
http://www.pottywhisperer.com
http://aitt.evassist.it

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Reader Comments (102)

I have a blog friend whose husband is Chinese, and she did a very similar post! It was so funny. She is actually back in China, living there.

August 4, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterKristina P.

WHOA!!!!! I had NO Idea what you were talking about with "split-pants" until I saw the pics!!! OMGoodness...I don't think I could get used to that!!!

August 4, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterKado!

We went to China in October and it took me a while to figure out the story with those pants. I ended up bringing a pair back for my nephew.....but my sister put a diaper on him underneath - - so defeats the purpose! :)

Cute pictures!

August 4, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterJinxy and Me

I AM stating that to allow children to release their bodily waste in public is WRONG. That waste is going into the public water system which is in turn contaminating it. That is NOT OK in my opinion- which is NOT so humble on this point. Hepatitis A, Gastroenteritis, Dysentery, anemia, digestive disorders, debilitation...just to name a few illnesses that are caused by such behavior.

The pictures are funny, but the side effects of the behavior is not. I am all for diapers on children who are not potty trained.

August 4, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterFoursons

Wow, that is interesting and just think of the cost savings.

August 4, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterJen

These are cute pictures!

August 4, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterAmy @ Six Flower Mom

Ok... I cant even believe this! Though the pics are so cute I cant imaging allowing my child to just "go" wherever and whenever they want. Totally shocking to me!

August 4, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterJenn@ The Crazies

amusing, to say the least!!!

August 4, 2009 | Unregistered Commenterscrappysue

how... interesting! i do love learning about different cultures. this is just so very curious!!

August 4, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterDiane

the idea is interesting, but the hygeine thing totally freaks me out...I mean there are some things I just don't want to see when I am at a resteraunt!!

August 4, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterLiz (Loving Mom 2 Boys)

I'm speechless. Totally speechless. And that doesn't happen often!

I believe I guffawed and tipped over backwards in my chair at that first picture!

How truly bizarre!

August 4, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterHappy

That is absolutely crazy...and HILARIOUS at the same time!!

Great pics and post! I think these pants could definitely come in handy during potty training!

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterNot Afraid to Use It

SO creepy! Baby asses are cute and all, but woah!

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterLace

rofl...wow! Happy WW - you certainly made it interesting.

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterPamela Kramer

Wow! Thank you for the culture lesson~~I never knew. We just moved back to the States from England and I know we saw more men urinating on the edge of the road than I care to have experienced. Belgium was also very interesting with the half walls next to buildings, roads, church buildings...for the men to use. We certainly are more inhibited in the USA~~and I am thankful:)

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered Commentertmm

I never saw that when I worked in beijing :) Great shots!

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterNickTay

This is just incredible... I still don't know how I feel about it. :-/

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterGabriel

Little bums are cute. Pee in the middle of a grocery store is gross. What works for one culture doesn't for another, but that is what makes the world go 'round!

Happy WW! Here are are photos from my local Farmers Market http://tinyurl.com/mgra8q

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterRed Lotus Mama

awww what cute butt cheeks!

http://whenhekissesher.wordpress.com/2009/08/05/the-peace-in-the-disturbance" rel="nofollow">Peace in Disturbance

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterAmericanising Desi

wow! i have heard of EC before, but never actually seen the split pants- that is crazy!! we use cloth diapers here, but that does seem easier...lol!

my ww:
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August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterMcClure Family

So apparently my son needs to go to China. Well not now, he doesn't pee in the bushes at school anymore. He's a farmer's son what can I say. Interesting post. I can understand the method to the madness but I just can't imagine being out for a walk and seeing a bunch a babies running around cobbing a squat anywhere they pleased.

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterLady Di

Just stopping by to say hi and thank you for popping by tonight!

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterGenny

Well I suppose it's more environmentally friendly than disposables, nd practical for training but how about the parents carry a chamber pot with them that has a tightly fitting lid with which to collect their child's leavings.

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterSukhmandir Kaur

Oh my goodness, LOL! Great pictures! Happy WW :)

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterShop with Me Mama

I thought that was something that only happened with grown drunk people on Bourbon Street {in New Orleans} LOL!!! Whoa...

:)
Kat @ For the Love of Chaos | www.SenileMOMentia.com

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterKat Robertson

Well, now I've seen everything. I hope those parents carry plastic baggies!

Kailani
http://islandlife808.com" rel="nofollow">An Island Life

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterKailani

It's amazing to see what is "acceptable" in other countries!

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterAlicia

Wow. I never knew this! But I have to agree with other comments...I don't think it's environmentally friendly or hygienic. But I bet it does make potty training easier! Yuck. I'll pass.

Happy WW!

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterRun DMT

LOL at those little bums. Happy WW!

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterLife Ramblings

I burst out laughing when I saw that!

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered Commenterblueviolet

What!? Is that real? I have never seen anything like that. I couldn't help but chuckle a little at the first photo. Baby bottoms - cute. LOL.

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterSara Bonds

WHAT??? OMG! I dont even know what to say except "Ewwww"

I've heard about different views on toileting there than in the US. Personally, I'd be freaked out.
Happy Wordless Wednesday!
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August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterI am Harriet

A bunch of the kids from the HS I work visited China this year.. and this was the first thing they mentioned.

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterFelicia

I'm with Foursons - I don't see how human waste in the park, on bushes, or on the floor in stores is such a benefit to the community. Hello - disease?

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterSweet Annabelle

OMG...I don't even know what to say!

I had never heard of this. Wow. Just wow.

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterSecret Mom Thoughts

Adorable photos, but disgusting cultural norm. I can't imagine having my kid's rear end exposed and walking away from a pee pool in the store. Thanks for sharing and happy WW. Take care.
-Kiki

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered Commenter{Kiki}

Wow I had now idea about that. Is it any wonder the Chinese environment is so toxic. I know the same could be said for the US disposable diaper usage, but going in the park, street or store is not sanitary!

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered Commentermom2nji

Oh my - I'm not even sure how I'd view those - definitely something to laugh at! :)
~K

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterKel

Oh my goodness! I'm speechless, just speechless.

And, wow -- you lived in Bejing?!

Happy WW to you!

Lol!
Great photos :D

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterAve

Did not know this--you've definitely expanded my world this morning!

Blessings!

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterOctamom

I had forgotten about those. I do not think I could have utilized them, but then again, I may have had I been in China at the time my kids where around the age? Tough call.

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterJennifer

For some reason, it didn't occur to me that they did this anywhere other than in Chinese orphanages. I am now very icked out by the idea of stepping in human poop at the park. I'm assuming they don't clean up the dog or human poop, right?

Yuck.

Wow! I have never heard of that. It's interesting to see what other cultures do and those pictures are really cute!

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterSusie

I have never seen anything like this before.. I learned something new today!!!

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterKim

I wonder if they potty train earlier because of this or would it actually take longer? HMMMM

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterTiff

I am laughing my butt off! I just sent this to 3 people! HA!

August 5, 2009 | Unregistered CommenterJulie@Momspective

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